Why Do Parents Compare So Much?
(and Why That’s Totally Normal)
If you've ever found yourself in a deep discussion about whose baby rolled over first, or how much tummy time your tiny human enjoys, congratulations—you’re officially a parent. And you're not alone! Comparing baby milestones (and even the weird stuff, like who burped louder) is practically a rite of passage for new mums and dads.
At Munchkin and Bear, we believe in celebrating every baby’s journey, no matter how wobbly or whimsical it looks. And yes, we’ve heard it all— “My baby rolled over at 4 weeks!” “Mine says ‘dada’ to the dog!” Whether you're pregnant and preparing or a sleep-deprived new parent in the thick of it, here's a gentle reminder that comparison can be funny, relatable… and totally harmless (in moderation, of course).
Why Do Parents Compare So Much?
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We’re Wired for Reassurance
In the whirlwind of new parenthood, it’s normal to look for signs that you’re doing okay. Comparing milestones or habits is one way to feel reassured that everything’s going to plan (even if that plan includes being peed on three times a day). -
It’s a Way to Connect
Talking about your baby’s quirks helps bond with other parents. It’s like your own secret club, where everyone is a bit tired and very enthusiastic about nappy brands. -
Because Babies Are Hilarious
Let’s face it: babies do the funniest things. Sharing those moments is half the joy of parenting—“Did yours try to eat the dog’s tail too?” Instant bonding.
The Silly Stuff We All Compare
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First tooth (or toothless grins for days)
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Rolling, crawling, standing, or just flopping
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Burp volume (yes, it's a thing)
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Weirdest sleep position
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Most dramatic poo face
A Gentle Reminder: Every Baby Is Different
One baby might be crawling at 6 months, while another is content just rolling in style on their play mat—and both are completely normal. Babies develop at their own pace, with their own quirks, talents, and timelines. You’re doing an amazing job, even if your baby hasn't mastered the art of tummy time selfies just yet.
Our Secret Weapon: The Munchkin and Bear Memory Foam Play Mat
Speaking of tummy time, crawling, and everything in between, our Munchkin and Bear Memory Foam Play Mat is the perfect place for your baby’s development—whatever pace they’re on. It’s soft, safe, and stylish (so your living room doesn’t scream “daycare centre”). It’s also ideal for bonding time, milestone moments, and, yes, even comparing whose baby rolled where first.
YOU'VE GOT THIS!
It’s totally normal to compare silly things as a new parent. Laugh about it. Embrace it. Share the weird, wonderful things your little one does. Just remember there’s no race, no gold medals, and absolutely no “right way” to be a baby.
So, celebrate the burps, the belly rolls, and everything in between—with a soft, safe spot to land on. Your baby’s journey is perfectly theirs, and you’re rocking this parenting gig (even if you haven’t washed your hair in a week).
